Hi there losers, kinksters and sluts!
So, "For what..." I hear you ask, "are you searching - 'O wise and sexually explicit one?".
Well my little kinksters, let me reassure you that nothing has suddenly changed overnight, I still have a wonderful supply of needy, desperate little fags and sluts to worship me...But recently, I have found myself in need of a very specific kind of assistance...I'll come back to that in a moment.
Firstly though I want to ask you a question:
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where your lustful, wanton desires have gotten you so deep into a situation that you surprised yourself with how powerful your sexual desires really are?
I'm thinking about a time when, maybe, you found yourself kneeling, worshipping your Dom (or maybe Domme if that's your experience), and you realise that your filthy, dirty, horny desires have driven you to degrade yourself for their amusement, entertainment (and maybe even, arousal) ...to *such* an extent... that you actually feel your cheeks heating, and you start to feel the pang of tears of humiliation springing to your eyes, and you feel your arousal thumping like a hammer in your chest....and *then* you realise exactly what a filthy, dirty little fuck toy you really are!
You are so driven and compelled to turn yourself into a sex object for the one who controls you... so driven to submit and make yourself useful to them in *whatever* way you can... that you are able to do things, able to lower yourself, in ways that you never imagined.
HAHA! Well THAT is what I want for you. I want to set you free so that you can delve into the darkest, seediest, MOST arousing...MOST exciting...(maybe even most frightening) parts of your sexuality....and I want you explore all of that safely, and securely, on the phone with me.
Indeed, a recent call I had, from a self confessed "no taboo" fuck slut went that way. It is this new connection that has me "seeking" a very unique asset in order to create the perfect punishment for her. You see, dear reader, she *loves* women, she truly finds them arousing, but apparently *only* when she is charge... and she also owns a couple of unruly dogs, and when I suggested that her pets might be lacking a little discipline, my little slut had to momentarily compose herself in order to take on board this feedback without allowing her unchecked sassy side to respond first.... (she did a good job to give her her dues, but it still gave me a new button to play with)...
...And, as those of you who have submitted to me will know, if you offer yourself to me, to be truly owned during our session, then *You-Are-Mine* and 'sass', no matter how witty, intelligent or amusing, simply has no place! Haha!
Consequently, my new little plaything has given me the motivation to put out a call for a bi- (-or gay), dominant lady, who is also adept at dog discipline, and would like to see a smug little slut kneel and service her, however she needs!
Now I realise this as an unlikely request (don't let that put you off applying for the role if this happens to describe you!), but the point of sharing this is less about finding a suitable volunteer, and more about making the point that *punishment*, is just that.... punishment. Don't be naughty if you enjoy being spanked, and then think that a spanking is what you'll get as "punishment" from me...a spanking is a reward for those that enjoy it, and only a punishment for those that don't. And trust me when I say that I *can* tell the difference between genuine enjoyment and genuine discomfort - Haha!
So...A Kinky, Lesbian, Domme dog-trainer for my fucktoy's punishment, who would have though anyone would need such a unique combination!? Haha! (...and no, just to be clear... this isn't a thinly veiled request for something *truly* taboo - this is just one of those funny combinations that you never thought you would find a need for in life!
In other news...I've had a couple of request for updates on my upcoming hypno-recordings, they are in hand, of course, but if you do have any special requests, or ideas for guided visualisations, full body emmersive hypnotic experiences or kinky behavioural modifications that you'd like to hear, then don't be afraid to leave a comment or two!
And for a more interactive experience, you know what to do - Call me!
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Monday, 2 November 2015
Friday, 12 June 2015
Control and power exchange
As many of you will have seen in my previous few posts I've been
sharing my thoughts about a few different fetishes, over the last few
months, and I've been having had a little break from keeping you up
to date with the more day to day stuff that's been going on with me
here, however, I have a perfect opportunity to do a bit of both just
now!
As many of you will have seen in my previous few posts I've been sharing my thoughts about a few different fetishes, over the last few months, and I've been having had a little break from keeping you up to date with the more day to day stuff that's been going on with me here, however, I have a perfect opportunity to do a bit of both just now!
Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and expriences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).
It occured to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange.
The fantasies evolved. Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!
After all, if you call me, it's becasue you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!
...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!
Sound too good to be true? Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an exchange of power which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.
It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!
The form that this power exchange takes varies of course. If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nutured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and secuming to her passion..melting (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.
And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, loosers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!
Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and experiences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).
It occurred to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange.
The fantasies evolved. Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!
After all, if you call me, it's because you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!
...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have, to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!
Sound too good to be true? Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an EXCHANGE OF POWER which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.
It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!
The form that this power exchange takes varies of course. If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nurtured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and succumbing to her passion..melting (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly, so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger... and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.
And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can probably imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, losers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!
I'm online for a couple more hours taking calls now, so if you want to explore your darker sexual side, or want to see what fantasies unfold when you hand your most intimate thoughts over to The Englishman then just - Call me!
As many of you will have seen in my previous few posts I've been sharing my thoughts about a few different fetishes, over the last few months, and I've been having had a little break from keeping you up to date with the more day to day stuff that's been going on with me here, however, I have a perfect opportunity to do a bit of both just now!
Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and expriences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).
It occured to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange.
The fantasies evolved. Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!
After all, if you call me, it's becasue you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!
...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!
Sound too good to be true? Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an exchange of power which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.
It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!
The form that this power exchange takes varies of course. If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nutured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and secuming to her passion..melting (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.
And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, loosers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!
Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and experiences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).
It occurred to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange.
The fantasies evolved. Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!
After all, if you call me, it's because you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!
...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have, to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!
Sound too good to be true? Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an EXCHANGE OF POWER which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.
It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!
The form that this power exchange takes varies of course. If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nurtured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and succumbing to her passion..melting (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly, so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger... and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.
And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can probably imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, losers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!
I'm online for a couple more hours taking calls now, so if you want to explore your darker sexual side, or want to see what fantasies unfold when you hand your most intimate thoughts over to The Englishman then just - Call me!
Sunday, 4 January 2015
Macro / Microphilia
Fee fye fo fum, I smell the blood of ....the Englishman....?
Haha!
Well, actually no, my nickname wasn't, in fact, a reference to the children's fairytale of Jack and the Beanstalk, but having said that, this genre is one that I really enjoy.
Any of you guys that are regular readers of my blogs know that I've been trying to write a few entries on the various noteworthy fetishes that I've encountered through my NiteFlirt phonesex calls, or through other area's of my activity and antics (both adult industry orientated, and social).
Now, this is one area that really intrigued me when a friend of mine first mentioned it to me. The idea of wielding powers that can shrink a person down to just a few inches tall, or being invovled in a situation where a person might find themselves "accidentally" shrunk all the way down to the size of a bug....Haha! Just imagine my delight when I first got the chance to explore more doing some particularly hot phonesex calls.
I want you to imagine it for a second for yourself...really visualise it ... picture yourself as being so small that it would take all of your weight to press down one of the keys on a computer keyboard.
Imagine the size of one of your tiny little feet compared to one of those keyboard keys....Imagine being inside someone's pocket with your face pressed up against the screen of their smart phone, being jostled and bumped as they walked.... can you imagine the heat, the smells, the feel of the fabric of that pocket abrading your tiny little naked body...Oh? didn't I mention that you were completely naked - HAHA!
Well, those experiences more involved, adrenaline tinged situations just like them are what the devotees of macrophilia or microphilia (depending on your point of view) enjoy. That feeling of being TOTALLY at the mercy of a (typically) sadistic, cruel and uncaring GIANT. Their very existence only continues at the giant's whim, and they are completely powerless to prevent anything from happening.
Needless to say that my victims...err... sorry, my caller's... imagined diminutive stature opens up all sorts of twisted possibility for someone with an imagination as vivid as mine. The weird and unusual sexual acts its possible to perform on... and with, a tiny little four inch high person are, understandably, quite different to those you might try with a full sized person, and the unquestioning, unflinching power I wield over my tiny playmate, well, THAT is intoxicating!
Ultimately all of the little shrunken urchins are in constant peril of being squished like a bug, and it goes without saying that one of the hottest things about his fetish is the total power exchange that exists in that situation.
Not for the faint hearted, and not for those without an imagination to match mine, but still and interesting and engaging topic, and one that I always enjoy!
So, if you are in the mood to see what it's like to be shrunk down and turned into a miniature sexual plaything, or you want to explore any other sexual fantasies CALL ME!
I'll be online taking calls for the next few hours, and equally if you have any experiences, stories or ideas, on this subject or any other phonesex related areas, you know I love to read your comments!
Until next time perverts! Haha!
Haha!
Well, actually no, my nickname wasn't, in fact, a reference to the children's fairytale of Jack and the Beanstalk, but having said that, this genre is one that I really enjoy.
Any of you guys that are regular readers of my blogs know that I've been trying to write a few entries on the various noteworthy fetishes that I've encountered through my NiteFlirt phonesex calls, or through other area's of my activity and antics (both adult industry orientated, and social).
Now, this is one area that really intrigued me when a friend of mine first mentioned it to me. The idea of wielding powers that can shrink a person down to just a few inches tall, or being invovled in a situation where a person might find themselves "accidentally" shrunk all the way down to the size of a bug....Haha! Just imagine my delight when I first got the chance to explore more doing some particularly hot phonesex calls.
I want you to imagine it for a second for yourself...really visualise it ... picture yourself as being so small that it would take all of your weight to press down one of the keys on a computer keyboard.
Imagine the size of one of your tiny little feet compared to one of those keyboard keys....Imagine being inside someone's pocket with your face pressed up against the screen of their smart phone, being jostled and bumped as they walked.... can you imagine the heat, the smells, the feel of the fabric of that pocket abrading your tiny little naked body...Oh? didn't I mention that you were completely naked - HAHA!
Well, those experiences more involved, adrenaline tinged situations just like them are what the devotees of macrophilia or microphilia (depending on your point of view) enjoy. That feeling of being TOTALLY at the mercy of a (typically) sadistic, cruel and uncaring GIANT. Their very existence only continues at the giant's whim, and they are completely powerless to prevent anything from happening.
Needless to say that my victims...err... sorry, my caller's... imagined diminutive stature opens up all sorts of twisted possibility for someone with an imagination as vivid as mine. The weird and unusual sexual acts its possible to perform on... and with, a tiny little four inch high person are, understandably, quite different to those you might try with a full sized person, and the unquestioning, unflinching power I wield over my tiny playmate, well, THAT is intoxicating!
Ultimately all of the little shrunken urchins are in constant peril of being squished like a bug, and it goes without saying that one of the hottest things about his fetish is the total power exchange that exists in that situation.
Not for the faint hearted, and not for those without an imagination to match mine, but still and interesting and engaging topic, and one that I always enjoy!
So, if you are in the mood to see what it's like to be shrunk down and turned into a miniature sexual plaything, or you want to explore any other sexual fantasies CALL ME!
I'll be online taking calls for the next few hours, and equally if you have any experiences, stories or ideas, on this subject or any other phonesex related areas, you know I love to read your comments!
Until next time perverts! Haha!
Wednesday, 13 August 2014
Filthy dirty... Phonesex
So...as most of you already know, (and have first hand experience of) I provide online phonesex services for financial reward. A few of my friends are aware of this fact, and as you can imagine have a healthy curiosity about the nature of the calls, and what goes on etc... Don't worry! Like any professional, all confidentialities are observed. (Although, if I *were* to share more details (fetishes, positions, devices....), the names of the participants needn't be changed to preserve their innocence...because *most* of the stuff we talk about... well... innocent? - it ain't!). HAHA!
But, alongside the general questions, a friend recently asked me if I preferred the longer calls or the the shorter ones. Just to give a little context - this was after I mentioned that I'd had a two hour long call earlier that day, and had bragged that my personal record was a single call of 6 hours (and yes, that one was with a lady).
So it got me to thinking about whether there was an optimal length of call for me? Needless to say the really short (< 3 mins) calls with new callers are pretty hard to get engaged with. I can read people pretty quickly, but unless they give me a detailed breakdown of the fantasy or kink they'd like to explore (or they are a regular caller and I already know them!), 3-4 minutes is isn't much time to develop a really engaging fantasy. Beyond that little exception though, I had to answer that there really wasn't an optimal length of time. Some fantasies are so beautifully detailed (one in particular, which is about to head into "Part 4", springs to mind) and so engaging, that I can lose track of time myself, and begin to get immersed in the story we build. Ok, so needless to say, as a dominant straight guy, I'm probably not going to be as "lost" in the story as you will be, unless there are some sexy ladies involved... Haha! But you know what I mean!
So it was a pretty interesting discovery to make, comparing an engaging 90 minute call with an engaging 10 minute call, neither one is better for me (beyond the obvious $$$ difference)! The only challenge with the longer calls is fitting them into my tight schedule! HAHA! The key to what makes a great session for me though, is a fantasy that has the right level of depth for the duration of the call, and that you are able to communicate to me the kind of experience you are looking for. Armed with that information I will blow your mind!
As any of you who have called me before will know, I have a vivid imagination and can dip in and out of all sorts of kinks, fetishes and scenes effortlessly and fluidly. I guess then that it isn't a great surprise that it doesn't come down to the duration of the call. It comes down to my ability to get inside your mind, and start pressing all those buttons... setting your heart pounding, your head spinning and letting you experience a truly mesmerizing erotic adventure... And if you haven't called me yet, well, read some of my feedback, and judge for yourself!
I'll be online for the next few hours, as usual, so whether you've called me before or not, and you fancy exploring a little filthy dirty phonesex fantasy, right now, you know what to do:
Call me.
But, alongside the general questions, a friend recently asked me if I preferred the longer calls or the the shorter ones. Just to give a little context - this was after I mentioned that I'd had a two hour long call earlier that day, and had bragged that my personal record was a single call of 6 hours (and yes, that one was with a lady).
So it got me to thinking about whether there was an optimal length of call for me? Needless to say the really short (< 3 mins) calls with new callers are pretty hard to get engaged with. I can read people pretty quickly, but unless they give me a detailed breakdown of the fantasy or kink they'd like to explore (or they are a regular caller and I already know them!), 3-4 minutes is isn't much time to develop a really engaging fantasy. Beyond that little exception though, I had to answer that there really wasn't an optimal length of time. Some fantasies are so beautifully detailed (one in particular, which is about to head into "Part 4", springs to mind) and so engaging, that I can lose track of time myself, and begin to get immersed in the story we build. Ok, so needless to say, as a dominant straight guy, I'm probably not going to be as "lost" in the story as you will be, unless there are some sexy ladies involved... Haha! But you know what I mean!
So it was a pretty interesting discovery to make, comparing an engaging 90 minute call with an engaging 10 minute call, neither one is better for me (beyond the obvious $$$ difference)! The only challenge with the longer calls is fitting them into my tight schedule! HAHA! The key to what makes a great session for me though, is a fantasy that has the right level of depth for the duration of the call, and that you are able to communicate to me the kind of experience you are looking for. Armed with that information I will blow your mind!
As any of you who have called me before will know, I have a vivid imagination and can dip in and out of all sorts of kinks, fetishes and scenes effortlessly and fluidly. I guess then that it isn't a great surprise that it doesn't come down to the duration of the call. It comes down to my ability to get inside your mind, and start pressing all those buttons... setting your heart pounding, your head spinning and letting you experience a truly mesmerizing erotic adventure... And if you haven't called me yet, well, read some of my feedback, and judge for yourself!
I'll be online for the next few hours, as usual, so whether you've called me before or not, and you fancy exploring a little filthy dirty phonesex fantasy, right now, you know what to do:
Call me.
Thursday, 8 August 2013
Pain Sluts and Masochistic Fetishes
So...its been a little while since I caught up on my little series of blogs on different fetishes, far too much gorgeous weather over here, and I've been out enjoying the sunshine and getting up to the occasional adventure, on of which was in the great outdoors and involved a little experiment with a sub's capacity to enjoy stinging nettles - HAHA! It was an intense, but successful experiment!...So I thought I'd pick an appropriate topic for this post and talk about pain sluts and the masochists that like to abuse them!
Being mainly based in phonesex domination (yes, I did say MAINLY) the physical side tends to be much more limited with what I can dole out to prospective pain sluts that come to serve me online, but with a little imagination, and some obedience on the part of the pain-slut, its not impossible to find ways to press those delicious buttons and get you squealing and squirming, just like I do in a real-life session.
Here's a little bit of science that you may have heard already; the pain centers in the brain are located very close to, and in some cases overlap with, the pleasure centers What this means in practical terms is that when you are having those erogenous tender parts gently caressed, teased and played with, your nervous system relays those playful caresses back to the brain, which registers them as pleasurable. We've all had the experience of being played with too roughly, and that that sometimes shocking sensation can be a real passion killer for some people, as the pain registers in a different (and not so sexy) part of the brain, presumably alerting us that we are at risk of suffering physical harm....HOWEVER, If its done right, and the transition between gentle and hard sensations is managed correctly, and, most importantly, the context (i.e. the atmosphere and setup) is right...well - that is when those not-so-gentle caresses can start to feel VERY sexy indeed.
Most pain-sluts describe a progression from their early experimentation with light pain into heavier kinds of play through explorations of their sexuality. This also points towards the idea of training which fits very nicely into the slave/Master dynamic in a lot of kinky play. The idea that the submissive on the receiving end of all of the torment can be pushed harder as their bodies (and minds) become accustomed to the overlap between pain and pleasure is pretty hot, and can reach a point with some of those dirty little perverts that they cum just from being hurt...and that in itself is a big turn on for the masochist! HAHA!
So, since we are talking about sexy pain, its not surprising that the usual array of ways to deliver pain to be centered on the naughty bits. Nipples, cock and balls / pussy, ass, ass-hole...the list goes on... interestingly there are some patterns that separate the genders - girls, in their development, quite quickly progress from light spanking of the buttocks to floggers over their thighs and backs, and before too long can find their hot little pussy's dripping at the thought of having their backs and buttocks striped by a cane... not altogether surprising since lots of girls tell of their enjoyment and arousal and having their backs played with (makes me wonder if its down to a bit of primordial wiring where the feeling of being mounted doggy-style, with their backs exposed that leads to that particular transition).
Guys on the other hand tend to be much more focused on their cock, and in particular their balls, with all manner of devices invented to create discomfort down their, which combined with a feeling of panic as their most tender areas are held in positions that provide easy access to exact carefully measured levels of pain. Its truly amazing what you can do with a ruler (plastic or wood) and elastic band, some thumb tacks and a willing obedient fag who is ready to serve his Master in whatever way he is told.
Nipples and feet are less gender specific, both areas are very sensitive with a lot of nerve endings that provide all of that delicious stimulation to your brain, getting you hard/wet when the stimulation is managed just right.
As for managing it "just right" HAHA! Well that's where skill, imagination and a touch of experience combine to allow the masochist to take the pain-slut to the edge and hold them there without stepping over the line, allowing that buildup to take place, enjoying watching the exquisite pleasure and torment build and build...so fucking hot!
If you find yourself curious about how exactly you can achieve this during a hot phonesex session... well I can't give all my secrets away here, but there's one sure way to find out...call me! HAHA! If any of this post has stirred you then you might find yourself compelled to learn more...And don't forget to check out my other posts on other fetishes, you never know what you might discover!
I'll be online for the next few hours now, so if you find yourself wanting ...needing to be played with, in whatever way, just call me, now.
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