Friday 30 June 2017

Upgrades

Wow, as ever, I am amazed by how long it's been since I posted here last! I wouldn't blame any of you for thinking that I had vanished from the face of the earth!

But - as you might have guessed - I haven't! HAHA!

So...upgrades -yes -technology is about to land -I won't say more than that for now, but rest assured that for all you guys (and girls) that have been struggling to connect with me lately, it's about to get a whole lot easier!

In other news, I'm going to throw a little shout out to a couple of my favourite callers, we'll reference them simply a C and D - you know who you are! But these two guys have a particular penchant for worshipping at my feet, and have delighted me with demonstrating their utter addiction, and desperate need to be used and abused! HAHA! Oh, and for D, a good deal of humiliation was also involved, humiliating him and drawing his attention to what an abject loser he is, is a particular favourite pass time of mine!

I'm also going to say that I'm looking forward to connected with one of my favourite girls, E, you also know who you are! Looking forward to connecting with you again next weekend babe! Hot, naughty and SO creative, it's always so much fun playing with someone who knows how to let go and have a good time. Just like in a real life sexy encounter, being able to let go and share a sexy adventure is a critical part of achieving a mind melting orgasm and having really spectacular phonesex!

Speaking of mind melting - how many of you have had the experience of being home alone (or maybe just...alone) and feeling a little horny, wondering what adventures you could get up to? I'm sure you're nodding as you read this, we've all been there right?  Feeling that little flutter of anticipation as you start to search the listings looking for someone to share an erotic phonesex journey with? Yeah - THAT feeling ... *anticipation* that starts to build into a determination to just - scratch - that - itch...HAHA!

Well, THAT feeling is just the beginning of the rollercoaster, once you find that listing, click the button to connect, and you hear my voice at the other end of the line... the flutter of anticipation gives way to a new reality, the reality that we *are* connected, talking LIVE, and the reality that you can start to share your fantasy, giving me exactly what I need in order to start amping up the intensity.

And amp it up - I WILL... I love getting creative and painting images, spinning  a reality, that brings that fantasy to life.  Whether it's a roleplay, an exploration of a fantasy, or simply the act of handing over all control to an articulate, intelligent, confident guy who will drive you to the peak of horny desperation, pressing all your buttons, and then some ...  and then (assuming you are deserving!) will MELT YOUR MIND with a dripping, gushing, salacious orgasm that leaves you in no doubt that you have just had a VERY close encounter! HAHA!

So - I'm online at the moment, and for the next few hours and, if you already feel that little flutter of anticipation, then, you know what to do do... just CALL ME!

Tuesday 18 October 2016

A return, just in time for Halloween

Wow!  It has been a long time since I blogged last. What can I say, I've been busy... HAHA!

For those of you who have been in touch, you'll have a fair idea of the adventures I've been getting up to, for the rest of you, lets just say that I've been living the dream! Debauchery, kink, and a few items kicked of my (imaginary) bucket list! Why imaginary you ask? Because bucket lists are for losers who don't actually do anything with their lives! My "bucket list" process goes something like this....I wake up, decide what I want to do today, then set about making it happen! And yes, sometimes the achievement of the goal takes a little bit of time and effort to realise, but isn't that part of the fun of life? Being in a position to pursue whatever it is that you want to achieve or experience?

Speaking of experiences, have you ever imagined what it would be like to know...deep down inside, that you are unfulfilled, that there is a part of you that isn't able to express itself, an experience that you crave, a fantasy of how you NEED to feel? ...Of course you do!

We've ALL had moments where we identify an aspect of our lives that could be improved, but not ALL of us instantly know what path to take in order to make the necessary changes. So what to do?


Well, one of the most rewarding aspects of doing what I do; not just online, in the phone-sex world, but out in the physical world too, is having the opportunity to connect with people who are looking to experience something....it might be something that they are able to define clearly, an experience they want to revisit or variation on a theme, but often, it's something they *feel* they need, a craving, a yearning for a particular type of experience, a state of mind that is hard to achieve in their day to day lives...and for me, being a part of that exploration is like a drug.

Take for example the latest little endeavour I've been working on: a previously dominant kinkster wanted to explore submission. It was daunting to them, the idea of finding someone to trust, someone with enough experience, imagination and the right temperament to be able to coax out those submissive traits, to train them, mould them to my own desires, whilst still managing to tailor the experience down the right track so that all of those hot, arousing buttons where pressed....well, for those of you that have spoken to me, you'll know that investing a few precious minutes in exploring with me yield HUGE returns, now imagine that face to face, being able to enjoy the physical as well as the mental...yeah...I think you can imagine the intensity of the experience...and YES, I collared that previously dominant kinkster, and now have a new living, breathing, fuck toy to add to my little collection! HAHA!



So for all you kinky perverts, fags, and losers, rest assured, I'm still here, still available, and ALWAYS ready to engage and explore with you, whatever your fantasy, kink or fetish, just understand that when you step into my world, it can be as intense, and arousing as you let it be...but most of all it can be addictive! You have been warned! HAHA!

I'll be online for the next few hours, so if you have something on your mind, a deviant sexual fantasy that you want to explore with a hot, straight dominant English guy, well...you know what to do - call me!

Sunday 17 April 2016

Spring time again!

Wow! it's been a while since I've had time to update this blog, but yes, I'm still here, and still taking calls, so none of you losers have to fear, you will all still have the chance to worship a REAL MAN who knows exactly what it is that you need! HAHA!

So, it's been a busy few months for me, I've been working on a few new projects, one or two of which might be of great interest to some of you (and a few of you might already know what I'm talking about too!), but most of that is still in development right now.

One thing that I am pleased to be able to share though, is that I'm finally starting to roll out some of the advanced erotic-hypno service I've talked about before, especially for all of you mind-control freaks out there!

Hypno-fetish you ask?  Well, for the uninitiated this is how the journey goes:

You discover submission, you discover how incredibly hot it can be to let a dominant man take charge of you, relinquishing control to him, and embracing the fact that your sexual being, your body, simply *needs* to be used for someone else's sexual pleasure...

You read.. you explore, and you accept that you are, in fact, a kinky little fuck, and you discover just how heart-poundingly hot it can be to set aside your expectations and simply - submit.

Maybe you explore these feeling on the phone with me, living out fantasies that you can't (for whatever reasons) enact in real life, or maybe, when you call me, it's to re-live real-life experiences with an intelligent, articulate straight guy who is as kinky as it gets...

And then....THEN - you realise that you want....no.... you NEED ...to go deeper...you NEED to let someone start to lead you even deeper into a more immersive, more vivid experience of submission...well, this is where erotic hypnosis starts.

The beauty of this particular journey is that it's just as safe as regular phonesex (your subconscious mind will only accept suggestions that are in line with your own deeper sense of morality), but erotic hypnosis gives you permission to go as deep as you feel comfortable with, overcoming the inhibitions that many people feel frustrated by.

The first steps into this exciting new area can throw up a lot of questions, and that's why I've teamed up with another very experienced British erotic hypnotist to offer any willing subjects the chance to try out different kinds of experiences both on the phone or face to face via Skype.  If you think this might appeal to you, drop him an email directly (englishharry@hotmail.com) or contact me here and we can explore the possibilities!

So, a short post this time, but more to follow soon!  I'll be online for the next few hours, so if you want to explore more, or maybe indulge in a different kind of hot, intense, erotic call, you know what to do.

Call me now!




 

Monday 2 November 2015

Seeking....

Hi there losers, kinksters and sluts!

So, "For what..." I hear you ask, "are you searching - 'O wise and sexually explicit one?".

Well my little kinksters, let me reassure you that nothing has suddenly changed overnight, I still have a wonderful supply of needy, desperate little fags and sluts to worship me...But recently, I have found myself in need of a very specific kind of assistance...I'll come back to that in a moment.

Firstly though I want to ask you a question:

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where your lustful, wanton desires have gotten you so deep into a situation that you surprised yourself with how powerful your sexual desires really are?

I'm thinking about a time when, maybe, you found yourself kneeling, worshipping your Dom (or maybe Domme if that's your experience), and you realise that your filthy, dirty, horny desires have driven you to degrade yourself for their amusement, entertainment (and maybe even, arousal) ...to *such* an extent... that you actually feel your cheeks heating, and you start to feel the pang of tears of humiliation springing to your eyes, and you feel your arousal thumping like a hammer in your chest....and *then* you realise exactly what a filthy, dirty little fuck toy you really are!

You are so driven and compelled to turn yourself into a sex object for the one who controls you... so driven to submit and make yourself useful to them in *whatever* way you can... that you are able to do things, able to lower yourself, in ways that you never imagined.

HAHA!  Well THAT is what I want for you.  I want to set you free so that you can delve into the darkest, seediest, MOST arousing...MOST exciting...(maybe even most frightening) parts of your sexuality....and I want you explore all of that safely, and securely, on the phone with me.

Indeed, a recent call I had, from a self confessed "no taboo" fuck slut went that way.  It is this new connection that has  me "seeking" a very unique asset in order to create the perfect punishment for her.  You see, dear reader, she *loves* women, she truly finds them arousing, but apparently *only* when she is charge...  and she also owns a couple of unruly dogs, and when I suggested that her pets might be lacking a little discipline, my little slut had to momentarily compose herself in order to take on board this feedback without allowing her unchecked sassy side to respond first.... (she did a good job to give her her dues, but it still gave me a new button to play with)...

...And, as those of you who have submitted to me will know, if you offer yourself to me, to be truly owned during our session, then *You-Are-Mine* and 'sass', no matter how witty, intelligent or amusing, simply has no place! Haha! 

Consequently, my new little plaything has given me the motivation to put out a call for a bi- (-or gay), dominant lady, who is also adept at dog discipline, and would like to see a smug little slut kneel and service her, however she needs!

Now I realise this as an unlikely request (don't let that put you off applying for the role if this happens to describe you!), but the point of sharing this is less about finding a suitable volunteer, and more about making the point that *punishment*, is just that.... punishment.  Don't be naughty if you enjoy being spanked, and then think that a spanking is what you'll get as "punishment" from me...a spanking is a reward for those that enjoy it, and only a punishment for those that don't.  And trust me when I say that I *can* tell the difference between genuine enjoyment and genuine discomfort - Haha!

So...A Kinky, Lesbian, Domme dog-trainer for my fucktoy's punishment, who would have though anyone would need such a unique combination!? Haha! (...and no, just to be clear... this isn't a thinly veiled request for something *truly* taboo - this is just one of those funny combinations that you never thought you would find a need for in life!

In other news...I've had a couple of request for updates on my upcoming hypno-recordings, they are in hand, of course, but if you do have any special requests, or ideas for guided visualisations, full body emmersive hypnotic experiences or kinky behavioural modifications that you'd like to hear, then don't be afraid to leave a comment or two!

And for a more interactive experience, you know what to do - Call me!


Monday 21 September 2015

Interrupted Service

How are you all doing, you dirty, sexy, bunch of losers, sissies, fags and sluts?? If you're doing half as well as me, then you'll be doing just fine! Haha!

So, the title for this post is a bit tongue in cheek as I have two reasons for picking it. 

Firstly, I seem to have had a few technical difficulties for the past week;  one of my lines was "offline" while all the rest where available (wait... ok, that might have been me, I forgot, my bad!), then I couldn't get back online after a call dropped, and *then* another super hot call got dropped a couple of times (luckily resolved before it became "critical" but more about THAT particular call later!). 

Suffice it to say, for those of you that call me regularly, you'll know that occasionally (and mean *very* occasionally) there might be some technical issues, but they are SO rare...and when you think that we are often talking to each other across the Atlantic Ocean...I guess *occasional* glitches are to be expected.

However...

My second reason for the title, is a little more fun (well, it was for me anyway!).

As a straight guy, who finds himself talking to gay guys, I often get asked if I ever role-play any physical interactions with those guys during the calls, so, for example, do I talk about letting them suck my toes or letting them suck me off?

My answer to that is, of course, it depends. Although guys do nothing for me physically, there are certain slutty, subbie qualities that can *sometimes* arouse me, and the very act of submission, for someone who is wired like me, is, in and of itself intrinsically hot.

That said, I am straight, and a Dom, so, when a slutty little sissy called me earlier in the week and begged me to treat him just the way I would treat a hot little whore, begged me to treat him like one of the horny little fuck-sluts that I might enjoy fucking in real life, I was only too pleased to oblige...He assured me that he was ready to be used and humiliated because he knew that he could never truly please me like a real woman could, but that he desperately wanted to try his best, and he wanted me to make whatever use of him that I could, for my own pleasure, without a second thought to his.

So, after describing to him in fine detail exactly how he should dress, how he should speak, how he should stand, how should prepare himself to be used...how he should use his mouth...and AFTER I had established that his little "clit-dick" was so throbbing, aching, hard ... and that he was ready to have his holes used however I wanted to use them... I told him to "hold that thought" whilst I made arrangements for a *real* little honey of mine to come round and deal *my* rock hard cock. Haha! 

I swear, I actually heard the sound of complete and utter "blue-ball-humiliation" in his voice when he said "Yes, Sir" in answer to my statement that she was on her way round! I explained that the very best use I could of him, was to know that he was in such an intense state of frustrated, humiliated, denial, while I fucked a real girl every which way! HAHA!!  He was such a good little sissy that he even remembered to tribute me for the trouble...now THAT is what I call interrupted service! 

Feel free to request "interrupted service" if you too would like to feel what he described to me in an email he sent subsequently as "the most burning, erotic humiliation I've ever endured". Perfect!

However...THAT wasn't my best call of the week...oh no...my BEST call of the week (which was the one that dropped out a couple of times) was with a super hot lady, who, for obvious reasons, made the fantastic choice to come and spend an hour of her time in my company. 

Now, as you know, I count myself SUPER lucky to have the chance to use my erotic imagination to weave seductive, sexy, sultry fantasies that will get a beautiful hot pussy, pulsing and throbbing.  Being able to share in those filthy, dirty, intimate fantasies that you might not dare to share with anyone other than yours truly. 

But, when all of that happens with a girl who can also, unashamedly, describe every detail of what she would do, how she would use her body, how she feels about the filthy conversation we're having as it happens... and who obviously knows her way round every inch of a man's body, AND isn't afraid to open herself *completely* to the experience, THAT is what makes truly hot phonesex!

Sweetie, that was mind blowing!

So, I'll be online taking calls for a few more hours now, if you would like to explore your own fantasies with me, and have your imagination ignited, or your  reality twisted into a throbbing, orgasmic wet dream, then click on the little telephone there on the right hand side and CALL ME!

Monday 10 August 2015

Is it still "arrogance" if I really do know better than you?

As always it's been much too long since I blogged last, but then again, is it my fault that I'm always having to much fun spending all your cash on life's little luxuries? HAHA!  Of course it isn't!  But you know me, I always gravitate back here when I have something that I know I just *have* to share....


So, a recent conversation I had with a rather sexy lady who has a fair degree of experience in aspects of sex and sexuality (not one of my callers as it happens this time) asked me an interesting question...she asked whether I thought there was a single, common, attribute that attracted most of my callers to me.

So I said:- "Yeah totally, it's my sexual confidence, baby! Haha!"
OK, ok...so we know it's true, but I'm only teasing.
 
My little quip is *of course* true; after all you can't expect to get people off on the phone without having a broad interest in sex and sexuality, and that interest fundamentally comes from the same place for everyone, it taps into some primal sexual drive in all of us, and I am very good at tapping into it (check out my feedback if you doubt it!)!

And I'm straight; guys don't do it for me physically, *but* that doesn't mean that I don't get a kick out of dominating a guy, having him whimpering in submission, or begging for release, or putting himself at my disposal to be played with in whatever ways I decide would be the "best" for him to be played with.

Equally, when I'm speaking to girls, I read that situation too, and make the decision as to what would be the "best" way to take things there....

And then it got me thinking.... it's *that decision* which is the common ground between; my ability to read a situation and make a decision, and most importantly, sexualise that decision for whoever I am speaking to.

I see alot of ads for guy's offering phonesex who claim to be the real deal, talking about their arrogance and cockiness, even maybe playing on the fact that they are "dumb jocks" that are a whisker away from being bullies.  I can understand that, if you are looking for a quick mono-dimensional fix, something like that might press the buttons.

But what makes my callers, and my phonesex calls different is that my arrogance is backed up by real mental (and physical) muscle, and then, when we connect, and you hear my voice, you realise that the fantasy of speaking to someone more powerful than you has just become a reality.

Take a message I just got from Drew for example:
"i hate when you are online at a time I cannot call...makes me think about trying to deny my need and you just making it so obvious to everyone"
...this is a guy who understands that the reality of *his* situation is that he is totally addicted to the sound of my voice....and he LOVES it.

So there's the question: is it still "arrogance" if I really do know better than you?

...If I know better than you how to press your buttons, if, once you share a little of your world, a little of your fantasies and fetishes....if... at that point, I pick up those little threads, and I start out in a different direction than the one you had expected... and I start to weave those threads...and you find yourself drifting into a heart pounding, throbbing, pulsating sexual adventure that takes your breath away, and leaves you wondering how the fuck this guy just managed to get so deep inside your head and blow your mind so comprehensively!!

Well, that's what I'm going to do if you give me the tiniest chance, you have been warned! HAHA!

So in answer to the sexy lady's question - I'd say "Arrogance, backed up with ability, imagination and genuine commitment to the task in hand!" [Pun, intended]

I'll be on line for a few more hours now, so if you think you might have something you'd like to explore, and you are ready to treat yourself to a little intensity... then CALL ME!

Friday 12 June 2015

Control and power exchange

As many of you will have seen in my previous few posts I've been sharing my thoughts about a few different fetishes, over the last few months, and I've been having had a little break from keeping you up to date with the more day to day stuff that's been going on with me here, however, I have a perfect opportunity to do a bit of both just now!


As many of you will have seen in my previous few posts I've been sharing my thoughts about a few different fetishes, over the last few months, and I've been having had a little break from keeping you up to date with the more day to day stuff that's been going on with me here, however, I have a perfect opportunity to do a bit of both just now!


Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and expriences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).

It occured to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange. 

The fantasies evolved.   Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!

After all,  if you call me, it's becasue you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!

...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!

Sound too good to be true?  Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an exchange of power which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.

It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!

The form that this power exchange takes varies of course.  If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nutured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and secuming to her passion..melting  (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.

And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, loosers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!

Just recently I've been enjoying a string of calls, from different callers, each with very different fantasies (and since none of them have mentioned my blog in conversation, I'm not going to name any names) but, suffice it to say, that I've had some imaginative scenarios to sink my teeth into, and had the chance to programme and reprogramme some receptive, subbie minds and conjure up some situations and experiences for callers that they have enjoyed.... and, sometimes, even opened doors for them that they might not have realised where there (don't believe me, check my feedback!).

It occurred to me though, that throughout these calls, which I have to tell you were a little longer than your stereotypical 5 minute dial-and-blow calls (hey!... not judging, just making the distinction! Haha!)...throughout these calls... there was that feeling of exchange. 

The fantasies evolved.   Each element of the session, whether it was a dirty phone domination session, or more of an interactive narrative where the details of the scenario had the time to express themselves ..the result was an exploration of the topic in hand...which, ok, I always lead...but it's just the way I role!

After all,  if you call me, it's because you need a break from taking the lead right? Right!

...And, of course, when you chose to call me, it's because you need a straight, dominant, REAL man, who just happens to have the intellect and imagination to express himself, and the sexual confidence to step outside of the "comfort zone" and drive whatever fantasy you have, to a crescendo that you might not have realised could be reached over the phone!

Sound too good to be true?  Well, here's my point: it takes CONTROL to make that happen. It takes an EXCHANGE OF POWER which, from the second we connect on the phone, from the second I introduce myself, you begin to understand that I draw more and more control...as I listen to you tell me about yourself, as you share the intimate details of your fantasy, of your fetish, of what you'd like to explore....you hand that control over to me...and you begin to understand that your pleasure will come when, and HOW, I decide.

It's this control, this hand-over of power, and the trust and confidence that callers like these place in my hands, that make it possible for me to blow their minds!

The form that this power exchange takes varies of course.  If a hot, sexy lady calls me with a desire to explore something more sensual, then the power exchange and the control can be cradled and nurtured, coaxed into a sexy seductive place where she begins to feels herself melting, and succumbing to her passion..melting  (and eventually dripping) with anticipation...suddenly, so ready to give in to that heat, ready to be overwhelmed by her own hunger... and ready to have her hot, willing pussy pounded until her mind-shattering orgasm erupts from within.


And as for all the sissies, foot faggots, cash-piggies and belly crawling losers that call me...Ha! Well as you can probably imagine, YOUR fantasies and fetishes receive a slightly different quality of control and power exchange... from you, losers, I take exactly what I want, and you will beg me for more. HAHA!!
I'm online for a couple more hours taking calls now, so if you want to explore your darker sexual side, or want to see what fantasies unfold when you hand your most intimate thoughts over to The Englishman then just - Call me!

You REALLY think you're worthy? try me:

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